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The most powerful gift we give our children is the gift of a secure relationship with us. While there’s a lot of complexity to that process in each individual parentu002Fchild dynamic… If you can remember these four things, chances are very good that you will be able to do this … SHOW UP for their tender moments and their triumphant moments. Be there for them and with them in their low lows and their high highs as often as you can. LIGHT UP when you see them so they know that you adore them and being around them. Delight is a magical medicine for any relationship. LISTEN UP to what they think and feel so they know that you hear their voice and care about their perspectives. MAKE UP when things get off course (as they do in EVERY RELATIONSHIP). Be the leader of repair and help them know that no matter the moment or the season you will always work to come back together after getting out of step. For a whole guide to building a secure relationship with your child my book “Raising Securely Attached Kids” is available for preorder now! Preorder link is in my profile and it would be such and honor and a help if you went right now and bought your copy (comes out Sept 3rd!) Love on. 🎁BONUS GIFTS at www.attachmentnerd.comu002Fpreorder for anyone who orders before in sale sate of Sept 3, 2024